As we all know that Nigerian are facing hard times, the economy is not favorable at this time but then life must continue.
We can stop enjoying our life because we do not have enough money to throw around or stop doing the basic things in life generally. Relationship is an important aspect of a man’s life and the fact that a young man is financially handicapped does not mean he has no right to be normal.
As a matter of fact; without having enough money to spend, one could divert one’s energy into doing other things that would ease off the tension that might have mounted as a result of being broke. It is quite possible for a man to find happiness in a woman even when he does not have enough money to throw around.
We would be sharing cost effective tips on the things a man could do to get a girlfriend. After all, a man who does not have money to throw around on a woman is expected to possess other qualities that would make up for his inadequacy when it comes to finances.
Find below some of the things a man could do to get a woman without spending much:
1. Being straight
Your personality matters a great deal, you cannot afford to be seen as broke and yet be chasing everything in skirts. The interpretation the ladies would have of you would be spelt as a potential liability.
While being a single, cultivate good habits that would eventually become a point of strength when you are in a relationship. These virtues cannot be bought by money and it would make women choose you over money at times.
2. Being light hearted
By being good natured, you are bound to meet more people as you carry on with your daily routine. Learn to smile once in a while and lend out support to whoever needs it at that moment. Before you know it, your reputation would precede you and speak for you.
Your body language also would help you a lot as people would always study you. You do not want to be seen or known as the weird guy. Happiness is key and it should reflect in everything you do.
3. Carefully select your friends
While you are trying to make the right decisions at your own level, having certain friends around you would not help. Since you do not have enough money to throw round, you should not take out a lady you want to ask out with your friend whose financial status overshadows yours.
While you may call it a twin date or whatever name you find for it, it would be the perfect time to make the lady you like see your flaws.
She would be able to make open comparison between you and your friend who spends more for his woman and appears to be more loving.
4. Be witty
Everyone is tensed; the stress of having to go to work daily and get through the basic routine of life could be draining. If you want to get a girlfriend without spending much, then you would have to apply the charms you have and make her laugh.
While turning on the joker instinct in you, please check her body language to be sure you are not boring her out. This trait would no doubt make you have enough friends from the opposite s*x, this would make whoever you ask out eventually to fall in love with you in totality.
5. Be responsible
Every woman wants to be associated with responsible men; you should know this and work it into your personality. No one is asking you to pretend, good manners can be cultivated. You do not want to strike people around as a drunk and you definitely want to be taken serious.
When you have the right attitude and you are responsible, you would be confident of yourself and would be able to assess situations well. Ladies around you would see you as being purpose driven and would be glad to walk into the future with you.
6. Do not be all about s*x
We understand you want to get laid and feel yourself from time to time; the only issue here is you have to sit down and ask yourself what you really want.
Being tagged as a player would not help you in this quest of finding a girlfriend. Naturally, ladies are always sensitive when it comes to s*x and they want to be sure you do not want them for s*x alone. Ladies would be confident around you when they see you are not pushy when it comes to s*x.